was a time in life I was lonely, unhappy and had very low self-esteem. I
thought if I only found someone to define me, someone to fill the holes
within my heart, everything would be okay. After the hard break-up of
my fourth in a series of bad relationships I realized I was the common
denominator. That is when I stopped looking for someone else to define
me. I stopped wanting someone else to make my life worth living. I took
over the job myself because I must love me first, to love others well."